Beyond the Game

I recently had the opportunity to lead a Confirmation retreat for 10th graders at St. Eulalia’s parish in Winchester, MA. To say I was apprehensive is an understatement. 

About halfway through October, I received an email from St Eulalia’s youth minister asking if I would be able to lend a helping hand for their upcoming retreat for 2023’s Confirmation class. 

She acquired my contact information from a previous Theology professor, who apparently sold me out as a good candidate. At first, I was curious at the prospect of volunteering with adolescents and especially interested to hear about how the pandemic affected their faith life. 

This Confirmation class specifically had been pushed back three separate times due to Covid-related conflicts, and did their “CCD” lessons online. I was less excited when I learned that the retreat would take place on a Saturday between 8:30am-7:30pm, the same day as BC Football hosted Virginia Tech at home. 

Honestly, after I learned this, I wanted to drop out from volunteering altogether but did not want to disappoint my Theology professor who had recommended me, or leave these kids high and dry for their fourth attempt at a Confirmation retreat. So, I dragged myself out of bed on a cold Saturday morning, put on my WWJD socks, and set out the door towards lovely Winchester. 

Upon arriving it was immediately obvious that I was doing much more than just lending a helping hand. I was asked to lead a small group of seven 10th graders through spiritual direction, discussion, prayer, and reflection. I was also responsible for introducing the class to Adoration, something each confirmandi had never yet experienced. 

As I took my place in front of the group, a mix of anxious and curious faces stared back at me. The challenge ahead seemed daunting, but as I began to speak and share my own faith journey, I could see a shift in their expressions. It became less about the inconvenience of missing a football game and more about connecting with these young souls eager to explore their faith. 

The day unfolded with a rhythm of prayer, discussion, and moments of quiet reflection. During one of the reflective sessions, I encouraged the group to ponder their understanding of God. It was a topic that brought forth a myriad of responses, from traditional depictions to more abstract ideas. Some saw God as a distant figure, while others felt a close, personal connection. As we delved deeper into the concept of God, I emphasized the importance of an ongoing relationship with the divine.